Life's short, get a divorce

[James]

I thought it was about superior social skills coupled with romantic passion.

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Who do you know personally that has been married 30 years? Then you need to ask them how they did it.

How do you measure success in a marriage? I know people who don't speak for several years.

Hayle, I know a couple married 40+ years who attended a marriage enrichment course...

No, it isn't just about sacrifice and working things out. It's about surrendering and giving it up to God...

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by James

I thought it was about superior social skills coupled with romantic passion.

Yeah, I mean its about roses, breakfast in bed, a large house with a white picket fence, and doing EVERYTHING together!!!

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Yeah, I mean its about roses, breakfast in bed, a large house with a white picket fence, and doing EVERYTHING together!!!

lol

[James]

Its not? Then why do we decide to get married based on a romantic attachment?

If we do get married for that reason but can't sustain the romance, then we should leave right?

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Yeah, I mean its about roses, breakfast in bed, a large house with a white picket fence, and doing EVERYTHING together!!!

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by James

Its not? Then why do we decide to get married based on a romantic attachment?

If we do get married for that reason but can't sustain the romance, then we should leave right?

So what are you calling "romantic"? The Kissy-Kissy, mushy-mushy stuff?

Or a deep soul-connection the gurus talk about all the time at Belief.net?

I think it is about mutual respect for someone deeper than that one has ever felt before.

If I left my husband for whatever reason, it would be a lame reason no matter what I thought was the "touchy-feely reason on the day" like this chit is ala carte with Carte Blanche. I would be physically ill and unable to control simultaneous vomiting along with bowel movements. That is how sick I would be...

If my husband left me, that bimbo had better have a "magic Disney World Universal Studios All Access Florida Amusement Parks coochie"... She'd better have Sith Lord Manipulations up her stuh...

'Cuz what I am giving him... He'd be stoopid to leave... Some of my "former business partners" would be pissed...

[Rudey]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

She'd better have Sith Lord Manipulations up her stuh...

Monet...

-Rudey
--I don't even know what to say.