What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

Dude, aside me from saying "I told you so" and "you were only looking at ass"... You can never make a "ho into a housewife"...

You discounted sistahs who you thought were "nerds" and "goofay". They didn't wear the cutest or revealing clothes. You chose ass and booty shaking over brains and beauty... Put it more bluntly, you chose a "Mary Magdelene" rather than the "Heavenly Sarah"... Dealing with a "Magdelene" and having her come to see the "light" is very different than loving a "Heavenly Sarah".

You chose to come under a legally binding "holy matrimonial" with a woman who failed to respect or understand the meaning of being with another human being. You disrespected yourself and your own family.

Really, rather than assessing the young lady's familial background, you need to start to love and respect yourself enough to include a woman who respects and loves you and your familial background...

It's that "let no one put asunder" and that "leaving and cleaving unto your mate".

No, that's not true. If I just wanted ass, I could have gotten plenty of that daily from several women. Not trying to be arrogant, but it's true. I've only been in two serious relationships. I've always been the commited type. I've never slept around, I could have, but I didn't. So it's definitly not about someones ass. I've never turned any women away, but I'm not going to be with someone I'm not physically attracted to. As far as respecting myself. I do, that's why I refuse to date just anyone, and as you said I don't just look for ass and some woman shaking her ass. That's a turn off for me. As far as family respect, I never disrespect my family either. Never have and never will. As far as nerds and goofy ladies. Nothing wrong with that. I think those women are very interesting, in fact I prefer women like that, but if I'm not physically attracted to her, then we can just be friends. You have your opinion based on what I wrote, and that's cool, but I'm not changing mine.