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11-28-2006, 02:39 AM
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I forgot to mention tatoos and body pearcings are both red flags for me too. Everytime she tries to call she'll get the v-mail and no return call. And then I'll press the delete button. 
No purple, pink, yellow ect hair either. All red flags.
Fake hair? Definite yellow flag, but after I got home and had time to dwell on it, it would turn into a red flag.
I once dated a girl and we went back to her place, once we got there she took her pony tail off. I looked at her, then I looked at the pony tail. 
I had to cut her a loose. She tried to call, and I never returned her call, and then I would avoid her when I would see her on campus.
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11-28-2006, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
I forgot to mention tatoos and body pearcings are both red flags for me too. Everytime she tries to call she'll get the v-mail and no return call. And then I'll press the delete botton.
No purple, pink, yellow ect hair either. All red flags.
Fake hair? Definite yellow flag, but after I got home and had time to dwell on it, it would turn into a red flag.
I once dated a girl and we went back to her place, once we got there she took her pony tail off. I looked at her, then I looked at the pony tail.
I had to cut her a loose. She tried to call, and I never returned her call, and then I would avoid her when I would see her on campus. |
You are a trip.
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11-28-2006, 12:31 PM
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If dude has a curl, s-curl, or relaxer/perm... red flag.
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11-29-2006, 12:01 AM
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If dude has a curl, s-curl, or relaxer/perm... red flag. |
LMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAO!!!!! Yeah I wouldn't date a girl with a curl either.
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11-29-2006, 12:03 AM
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You are a trip. |
I don't like ankle bracelets either. Definite red flag.
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11-29-2006, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
I don't like ankle bracelets either. Definite red flag.
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Damn PB you're picky as hell.....what if she was beautiful, with a really good heart, from a good fam with upbringing that you approve of, but she wore an ankle bracelet during the summer or had 1 small tatoo?
Red for the anklet just seems severe....
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11-29-2006, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9
Damn PB you're picky as hell.....what if she was beautiful, with a really good heart, from a good fam with upbringing that you approve of, but she wore an ankle bracelet during the summer or had 1 small tatoo?
Red for the anklet just seems severe....
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I misread his post and thought he was joking about how his date being under house arrest would raise a red flag. Jeeez, I'm quick today....
My mom told me that, once upon a time, only super skanky women/prostitutes wore ankle bracelets. Maybe that stereotype still holds true in PrettyBoy's area.
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11-30-2006, 12:42 AM
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Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap
I misread his post and thought he was joking about how his date being under house arrest would raise a red flag. Jeeez, I'm quick today....
My mom told me that, once upon a time, only super skanky women/prostitutes wore ankle bracelets. Maybe that stereotype still holds true in PrettyBoy's area.
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My dad thinks the same thing your mom said. He said women who wear ankle bracelets like to screw around. My dad and mom have been married for 43 years and are old fashioned. She doesn't like it either. My thinking isn't as severe as theirs is about women who wear ankle bracelets, I just don't like it.
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11-29-2006, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9
Damn PB you're picky as hell.....what if she was beautiful, with a really good heart, from a good fam with upbringing that you approve of, but she wore an ankle bracelet during the summer or had 1 small tatoo?
Red for the anklet just seems severe....
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See that's the thing... Anything can be grounds for "dismissal"...
All those items he listed, with the exception of family, can be changed.
Homegirl with tattooes--laser surgery...
Fat girls: Exercise, nutrition and bariatric...
Hammertime in girl's hands and feet: manicures & pedicures every 2 weeks
Hair falling off in clumps: saved head style, wigs or weaves or if it's a sistah, au naturel...
Jheri Curled Hair: Braids that grown into locks... Takes 2-3 years... Can be nicely kept
Jacked up teeth: Visit to the dentist, get implants and brighteners
Bad skin: Visit to the dermatologist and plastic surgeon get work done
Overall malaise: Weight training exercise with core workout (i.e. yoga or pilates), visit to a motivational speaker or professional coach.
Odd and strange behavior unrelated to drug use: Visit to a psychological specialist and get therapy. Takes 2-3 years of stabilization with possiblility of medication...
Funky family: Prayer and honest discussion toward offending parts with professional mental healthcare provider present
Now basically, PB does not want to work with a woman thru her issues. He only wants to work on HIS issues with her... He needs to be by himself for awhile rather than unloading his miseries onto other unsuspecting women... 
I do like what Valkyrie said though... Be man enough to tell homegirl you're dating what you did not like about her. Of course you will be selfish little prick, but hey, you have your standards.
It's about lifting as you climb.
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11-30-2006, 12:49 AM
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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
See that's the thing... Anything can be grounds for "dismissal"...
All those items he listed, with the exception of family, can be changed.
Homegirl with tattooes--laser surgery...
Fat girls: Exercise, nutrition and bariatric...
Hammertime in girl's hands and feet: manicures & pedicures every 2 weeks
Hair falling off in clumps: saved head style, wigs or weaves or if it's a sistah, au naturel...
Jheri Curled Hair: Braids that grown into locks... Takes 2-3 years... Can be nicely kept
Jacked up teeth: Visit to the dentist, get implants and brighteners
Bad skin: Visit to the dermatologist and plastic surgeon get work done
Overall malaise: Weight training exercise with core workout (i.e. yoga or pilates), visit to a motivational speaker or professional coach.
Odd and strange behavior unrelated to drug use: Visit to a psychological specialist and get therapy. Takes 2-3 years of stabilization with possiblility of medication...
Funky family: Prayer and honest discussion toward offending parts with professional mental healthcare provider present
Now basically, PB does not want to work with a woman thru her issues. He only wants to work on HIS issues with her... He needs to be by himself for awhile rather than unloading his miseries onto other unsuspecting women...
I do like what Valkyrie said though... Be man enough to tell homegirl you're dating what you did not like about her. Of course you will be selfish little prick, but hey, you have your standards.
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All of that still isn't going to change my standards. I guess I'll continue to be a "single" selfish little prick. 
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11-30-2006, 02:18 AM
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All of that still isn't going to change my standards. I guess I'll continue to be a "single" selfish little prick. |
You will always be my selfish single little jackass... Not prick... 
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11-30-2006, 12:37 AM
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Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9
Damn PB you're picky as hell.....what if she was beautiful, with a really good heart, from a good fam with upbringing that you approve of, but she wore an ankle bracelet during the summer or had 1 small tatoo?
Red for the anklet just seems severe....
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I know, I'm very picky, and I don't expect her to be perfect, because I'm not perfect, but if she came from a good family background, I don't think she would be wearing a tatoo or ankle bracelet, but if she did, no I wouldn't want anything but friendship from her. I don't like tatoos, ankle bracelets, or body piercings. I'm just into plain jane girls from backgrounds similar to my own. The nerdy girls that are very attractive under the glasses is what I go after .
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11-30-2006, 01:13 AM
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if she came from a good family background, I don't think she would be wearing a tatoo or ankle bracelet
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I hope you're not serious. It's one thing to have a preference, it's another to say if you are wearing X type of jewelry you must come from Y type of family or be Z type of girl. Funny how people who deal with stereotypes all their lives still don't get it.
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11-30-2006, 04:07 AM
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Originally Posted by laylo
I hope you're not serious. It's one thing to have a preference, it's another to say if you are wearing X type of jewelry you must come from Y type of family or be Z type of girl. Funny how people who deal with stereotypes all their lives still don't get it.
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Women I know from good families wouldn't dare get a tatoo because they know how extremely trashy it is. I broke up with a girl once because she got one.
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12-01-2006, 05:04 AM
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Originally Posted by laylo
I hope you're not serious. It's one thing to have a preference, it's another to say if you are wearing X type of jewelry you must come from Y type of family or be Z type of girl. Funny how people who deal with stereotypes all their lives still don't get it.
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She may come from a great family and still have a tatoo or bracelet. I haven't seen a girl like that yet, but I'm sure she exist. Would I get serious with her? No. Now that I think about it, there are no yellow flags for me. It's either green or red. If I see a yellow caution, it's just like the traffic light. Yellow always turns to red.
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