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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
Lord no!!!! I'm normally the happy one! But this is totally out of character for me. Thats why I'm sooo clueless as to what to say so that we wont be offended!
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Wake up, sweetie. If he hasn't changed in five years, he's not going to. This relationship can either exist in its current state, or not exist at all. He's not going to change himself for you.
Stop worrying if he'll be offended and leave. If you stand up for yourself, of course he'll be offended. Of course he'll leave. And if he doesn't leave, you need to. Otherwise, you're teaching him that all he has to do is threaten to break it off and you'll submit. Because that's what you're doing. He's like a toddler throwing a tantrum, and you're giving him his way every single time.
It sounds like you don't want the relationship to end. Are you happy being controlled? If not, you need to get out now.
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