Loved Ones Agianst Sororities :(

[Senusret I]

Let's not forget that this is an NPHC sorority and it's your senior year (isn't it?).

Although all the advice that has been given is sound, I'd say that the chances of you joining an NPHC are just plain different than if you were going through NPC rush.

First, if you are not accepted, then he seems like he will be saying "I told you not to try."

Second, if you regroup, stay with him, and then decide to pursue an alumnae/graduate chapter, it's the same old argument.

I don't like this guy.

[OneTimeSBX]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

I don't like this guy.

i get a slight vibe that i shouldnt like him too...

i think he knows you will be busier and won't have time for him. and any man that will keep you from your dreams is no good for you. his correct response should have been "oh wow! well lets hope things go well! i wish you the best" and not that 6 year old whiny answer you got.

part of being in a relationship is sacrifice. my sis-in-law embodies that the best of any spouse i have ever met. she moves cross country while her husband does computer work. every year its a different city, and she never complains. she knows his goal, she knows his dream, and she backs it up. she never holds him back. and your "boyfriend" shouldnt hold you back either.

once you pledge xyz, you will be meeting lots of men in fraternities...who knows what type of guy is out there? i know there will be one who understands. so yeah, i agree with everyone else. skip the letter you plan on writing and let him know you two are on two separate pages in life and its totally not going to work. and do it now so he doesnt assume its the sorority. because down the road there will be more things he is going to threaten to leave you over. it wont stop.

[Little32]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

I don't like this guy.

^^lol. Neither do I.