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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
I dont know. I somethimes think if I do do it, and he does leave me, if I actually do make it....he will dogg me out. But thats childish. He's grown, so i hope he wouldnt stoop to that level.
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He's totally childish. He wants you all to himself, which is at best just possessive, and at worst completely abusive. If you've been together for 5 years without a symbol of a larger commitment on his part, then you have your answer as to where he sees the two of you. Do you honestly, honestly, believe that he's the One?
I started dating my ex-boyfriend during my pledge process. He was (and is still) pretty anti-Greek. If you listen to him, the social ills of the world were all brought forth by fraternity and sorority members. But, since he loved me, and supported me in whatever I did, he expressed his concerns about elitism, substance abuse, etc., and didn't threaten to break up with me for something as trivial as joining a sorority. We ended up breaking up years later, for reasons completely unrelated to Greek Life.
ETA: I just read your most recent post. He sounds terribly needy.
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