Lavalier?

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by ΘΦΑlovesΣΝ

Okay, so there are two things wrong with these replies: 1. You aren't a Sigma Nu, so you wouldn't know if they are able to disclose information to their wives or not.

No I'm not a Sigma Nu. None of us are, and none of us claimed to be, nor did we claim to speak for Sigma Nu. That's why rather than commenting on what Sigma Nu allows and doesn't allow, I "paged" (somewhat facetiously, of course -- he may not be looking at this thread) a regular Sigma Nu poster.

That said, discussions about husbands and wives sharing ritual secrets has been had here before. Based on those discussions, I think I've got a very good idea what any of the Sigma Nus around here would say. It's the same thing that I'm willing to bet the members of any other GLO (other than Delta Upsilon) would say.

And I didn't mean to imply that he could disclose all aspects of their ritual to me anyway.

People were just going by what you actually said:

Originally Posted by ΘΦΑlovesΣΝ

I am not "connected" to Sigma Nu or allowed to know any of their secrets until I am married to him.

Sorry if you didn't really mean what you said or if you didn't understand how it would be read by others, but a comment like this one is going to get responses like the ones you got.

I would appreciate it if you thought about what you were saying and assuming before you posted a reply.

My only response to what you said was to congratulate you. My other responses were to what others said. You might try taking your own advice.