Are there any relationship experts here? Very serious question. Help.

[Dwight]

Originally Posted by honeychile

Seriously, see a sex therapist or, if you're religious, a premarital counselor. Whatever you do, don't ask my exhusband!

So your exhusband has the same problem I have? Is that why you divorced him? We tried again tonight, and I did it again. I even tried masturbating before to see if that would make a difference, but it didn't. We actually timed it this time. It was 54 seconds, and I did the same thing. My body starts to gyrate, my eyes roll in the back of my head, my toes point and then I make the same moaning sound I always make at the end that she says annoys her for some reason, and then it's over. I see why we never have any pillow talk. When I masturbate, I can go for about 15 minutes, it's just when I'm having sex with her, that I'm done so fast. Though I wish I could, I can't help it.

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by Dwight

So your exhusband has the same problem I have? Is that why you divorced him? (snip)

No, that's not why we divorced. It was the hostility, anger and abuse which came from his problem (among other things) that caused it.

[Dwight]

Originally Posted by honeychile

No, that's not why we divorced. It was the hostility, anger and abuse which came from his problem (among other things) that caused it.

I thought he had the same problem I had. Sorry for assuming and thank you for the advice.

[honeychile]

Originally Posted by Dwight

I thought he had the same problem I had. Sorry for assuming and thank you for the advice.

He did - the rest came from his eventual self-hatred.