Are there any relationship experts here? Very serious question. Help.

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Originally Posted by 33girl

OK, I'm assuming you perform oral sex on her regularly and for a long time, correct? You've honed your technique to what she likes, correct? If you have done both those things, and she's still complaining...

Some people can have relationships that are great everywhere else, but just aren't compatible in bed. It has nothing to do with being "good" or "bad" or time or circumference or length or any of that stuff.

It's also something you cannot force. Sometimes two people just do not fit.

You guys would probably be fine if you were 80, but when you're in your 20s sex is a big part of a relationship for most people. I know this isn't the answer you want, but unless you'd be OK with her seeking sex outside of your relationship, you should probably end it now.

(I sound like Dan Savage in this post.)

I had to stop giving her oral sex. I never told her and I feel bad, but I can't take the stinch in that area. Whenever I would have oral sex with her, I would have to turn away periodically as I was doing it because of the smell.

I don't want to break it off, because I really love her. I wish there was a way to fix this. Thanks a lot for the advice. I think you have a point.