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I just found this thread, and I can't tell you how much I identify with the situation. I used to be best friends with one of the girls I'm living with, but soon before we moved in, she got herself involved with this terrible crappy guy who likes to control her life. She had always been with one of those types...you know, she's one of those girls who cannot bring herself to not be in a relationship. Every time something ended, a week later she was with a new douchebag.
The guy she's dating now is unfriendly, emotionally controlling, and super annoying because he is ALWAYS on my couch and I can never get anywhere near the TV...which is my TV btw...whenever he comes up to visit (which is like every other weekend). I can't tell you how many times I've overheard screaming fights, him crying, her crying, ect. He is inconsiderate of the fact that I live there too, and is totally cold to me, in my own apartment. And on top of it, since he hates me (he thinks because I'm in a sorority I'm a bad influence on her and a total drunk. I'm risk management, but...whatever), I can't be friends with her. She's actually gotten totally cold to me since they've been dating.
So many weekends he's up here, throwing out any unopened alcohol that someone left on the table, because its "immoral". Yes, I know its cheap beer, and I'm not going to make this loser drink it, but its totally rude that he is throwing out my property.
It's sad really...I can't say anything about his unhealthy and controlling behavior because she won't listen, not that she listens to me anyway since they started dating. And sadder still, I'm so done with her that even if she tries to be my friend again after (if...well hopefully) they break up, I couldn't do it.
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