Need advice regarding roommate and her creepy boyfriend

[UofISigKap]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

He controls everything....Yet she does everything he says because she loves him. It's really sad.

I am fearful for your friend's future and safety.

[VandalSquirrel]

I am so glad I got out of my situation before it came to any of these stories. I saw it starting and there were enough warning signs that were apparent to me and others that it was a lot easier to end it. The thing is even if you leave, these kind of men work hard to keep some kind of hold or connection, and that can drag out and it still isn't over.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by UofISigKap

I am fearful for your friend's future and safety.

I am as well, but really, there's nothing anyone can do if she doesn't feel like this is a problem right now. She doesn't really call any of us, because she kind of knows that we don't like him. I think she'll eventually come around and realize that this isn't a good situation, I just hope she realizes it before the abuse turns physical.