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[WVU alpha phi]

I think we may be blowing it out of proportion- she knows people in fraternities, she didn't say she's over there every single night. I agree with the above posters, definitely don't be "that girl". But fraternities will most likely come up at some point during rush conversation (about mixers) and you could maybe say "oh yeah some of my friends from home are XYZs" or mention that you saw how much fun your fraternity friends have and that made you interested in joining a sorority.

Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi

I think we may be blowing it out of proportion- she knows people in fraternities, she didn't say she's over there every single night. I agree with the above posters, definitely don't be "that girl". But fraternities will most likely come up at some point during rush conversation (about mixers) and you could maybe say "oh yeah some of my friends from home are XYZs" or mention that you saw how much fun your fraternity friends have and that made you interested in joining a sorority.

She made it clear twice that she parties with these guys. Partying with them =/= knowing people in fraternities. She was concerned if this could hurt her reputation, and it can.

I don't think we're blowing anything out of proportion at all. I remember how it was like being 18-22 years old and jumping to conclusions quickly so I think we're just being realistic here because it doesn't seem like she is.

Based on the OP's other posts, she's at UCF. If I'm not mistaken UCF begins FR in just about 2 weeks. I get the impression that she's going to wait until Spring. A lot can happen from now until then.