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[goldnknight]

maybe i worded it wrong, but i was going to go in the fall this year but i get a little intimidated by all the people going. i feel like my chances are lower and i wouldn't get noticed. maybe im just nervous? honestly though i do drink but my frat guy friends ive known for awhile... and i dont get trashed and pass out on floors

Originally Posted by goldnknight

maybe i worded it wrong, but i was going to go in the fall this year but i get a little intimidated by all the people going. i feel like my chances are lower and i wouldn't get noticed. maybe im just nervous? honestly though i do drink but my frat guy friends ive known for awhile... and i dont get trashed and pass out on floors

If you're intimidated by Fall Recruitment, I'd hate to think of how you'll be during Spring Informal. For starters, not all sororities (if any) participate in Spring Informal. Your chances are slimmer because there are only a few spots open. Second, those spots may very well go to girls who participated in Fall Recruitment because they didn't get a bid for whatever reason. The sororities already know them and may like them. They'll have an edge over you because the sororities won't know you. Or the bids might go to friends of sorority members.

Last, who cares if you've known these guy friends for a while? The sororities don't know that and they don't care. Even if you don't get trashed and pass out, they'll know you as the girl who always hangs out at the frat house. The background stuff won't matter.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by goldnknight

maybe i worded it wrong, but i was going to go in the fall this year but i get a little intimidated by all the people going. i feel like my chances are lower and i wouldn't get noticed. maybe im just nervous? honestly though i do drink but my frat guy friends ive known for awhile... and i dont get trashed and pass out on floors

Honestly, your best chance at joining could very well be during fall formal recruitment, since that is when ALL sororities will take new members. Spring recruitment is a bit different. Not every sorority participates, and those that do participate have a limited number of spots available. Not saying that spring recruitment is bad, it's just that you could have more options if you do formal since you'll see all of the sororities and meet more people.

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Honestly, your best chance at joining could very well be during fall formal recruitment, since that is when ALL sororities will take new members. Spring recruitment is a bit different. Not every sorority participates, and those that do participate have a limited number of spots available. Not saying that spring recruitment is bad, it's just that you could have more options if you do formal since you'll see all of the sororities and meet more people.

UCF begins FR on the 18th. If she wants to participate, she better get moving.