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[KSUViolet06]

Yes, partying with fraternity members can hurt your reputation. Sorority members go out and they do take notice of the non-greek women at parties. If you do anything that causes you to look like "that girl" at a party, they're going to take note, and will remeber you if you show up at one of their recruitment parties.

Examples of "that girl" behavior:

*Taking your shirt (or any other clothing item) off at a party.
*Hooking up with guys at party.
*Getting overly drunk and making a scene.
*Puking in public.
*Getting into confrontations with other girls.

You get the idea. If you're going to go out, try to be low-key and not call a ton of attention to yourself, or it will affect your chances.

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Yes, partying with fraternity members can hurt your reputation. Sorority members go out and they do take notice of the non-greek women at parties. If you do anything that causes you to look like "that girl" at a party, they're going to take note, and will remeber you if you show up at one of their recruitment parties.

Examples of "that girl" behavior:

*Taking your shirt (or any other clothing item) off at a party.
*Hooking up with guys at party.
*Getting overly drunk and making a scene.
*Puking in public.
*Getting into confrontations with other girls.

You get the idea. If you're going to go out, try to be low-key and not call a ton of attention to yourself, or it will affect your chances.

To the OP, also keep in mind that, even though your connections to these fraternity guys may be innocent and harmless, sorority members may not see it that way. If your association with them is limited to the parties, I'd just stay away.

..and what Kansas City said.