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[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

No, I don’t agree with it but I wasn’t trying to argue with you either. I though it was decent dialogue. You put it out there and I was responding to your opinion. Just looking for some insight.

And for the record, I never said anything about her being behind, I simply asked why you couldn't walk together.

We can walk together, but you think a relationship should be 50/50. Now, you tell me what corporation has two leaders? You can't, because there isn't one. There is always one leader who makes the final decision. Two people can go into business together, but someone is still making the final decisions. Two can't do it if they disagree. You make it seem like she has to walk behind me like women do in other cultures. I'm not saying that at all. In a marriage she is 1st before anyone with the exception of God. All I'm saying is we can walk side by side, but when an issue arises and a decision has to be made, there is no 50/50, he makes the final decision. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. He should always have her input, her input may be better, but if he doesn't think so, he needs to tell her why, and follow through with his final decision. Good luck on your 50/50 relationship, I seriously hope it works for you.