Playas till the day we die...

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

So why couldnt you walk by her side WITH her? Would it have killed you?

I didn't say she had to walk behind me, but I will be the head and she is to submit to my lead. Period. If you don't agree with it, that's cool. Good luck in your future relationships.

[OneTimeSBX]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I didn't say she had to walk behind me, but I will be the head and she is to submit to my lead. Period. If you don't agree with it, that's cool. Good luck in your future relationships.

if shes not behind you, but you are in the lead...please explain!

oh and uhh, do you explain that exactly how you put it when you enter relationships? even my most religious, old fashioned girlfriends would be a bit surprised. it comes off a bit...pushy?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

if shes not behind you, but you are in the lead...please explain!

oh and uhh, do you explain that exactly how you put it when you enter relationships? even my most religious, old fashioned girlfriends would be a bit surprised. it comes off a bit...pushy?

Easy. If we are discussing an issue that needs to be resolved, and we can't come to an agreement, then the man's decision is the final one. She should follow him. Now, I'm not saying to follow, if the joker is jacked up, not working, out cheating, runnin' the streets, hell I wouldn't sumit to that either. OneTimeSBX, you have your opinion, and I'm not going to argue with you. It would be pointless doing so. Again good luck in your relationships.

[NinjaPoodle]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I didn't say she had to walk behind me, but I will be the head and she is to submit to my lead. Period. If you don't agree with it, that's cool. Good luck in your future relationships.

No, I don’t agree with it but I wasn’t trying to argue with you either. I though it was decent dialogue. You put it out there and I was responding to your opinion. Just looking for some insight.

And for the record, I never said anything about her being behind, I simply asked why you couldn't walk together.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

No, I don’t agree with it but I wasn’t trying to argue with you either. I though it was decent dialogue. You put it out there and I was responding to your opinion. Just looking for some insight.

And for the record, I never said anything about her being behind, I simply asked why you couldn't walk together.

We can walk together, but you think a relationship should be 50/50. Now, you tell me what corporation has two leaders? You can't, because there isn't one. There is always one leader who makes the final decision. Two people can go into business together, but someone is still making the final decisions. Two can't do it if they disagree. You make it seem like she has to walk behind me like women do in other cultures. I'm not saying that at all. In a marriage she is 1st before anyone with the exception of God. All I'm saying is we can walk side by side, but when an issue arises and a decision has to be made, there is no 50/50, he makes the final decision. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. He should always have her input, her input may be better, but if he doesn't think so, he needs to tell her why, and follow through with his final decision. Good luck on your 50/50 relationship, I seriously hope it works for you.