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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I don't get it. Rephrase that please, I need a break down every now and again.
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Sweetheart,
You said you were a virgin, right? While I do not have issues with that most men find fantasize about being the cause (spelled cost) of a lose of a woman's virginity. It is the best thing to do since sliced bread. So, he can be a 1 hit wonder and that would be your concept of sex...
So you are attracting the "players" because they think--no fathom--that they're little shriveled up vienna sausage will "teach" you about the Universe of sex. Simply because they think you are naive. Besides, the word is out on you and your choice of virginity... You are the "Holy Grail" of sexual encounters...
You can take all the Sexuality classes you like that will teach you the mechanics and psychology associated with sex. But the truest essence of your own sexual expression has to be a manifestation of your Spirit... Otherwise, you are just going through the motions and you are letting a prick pervert masterbate and defecate on you...
A avoid the shock of sex as not being what it is all cracked up to be is to meditate using the Tantra. That is just one avenue. It takes you to a higher level in your mind. It assist you developing the kind of relationship skills to surpass those of vows. It keeps you true to yourself and your mate.
My question is to you is, have you been able to seduce the man your
in your dreams? Not the man
of your dreams--but the man who God is leads you to? Be mindful, sometimes God has a sense of humor...
In your post, I found your tone to be one of frustration by how men treat you by the endgame. They are doing that because you cannot be swayed from your beliefs. And they are shocked. They belittle YOUR choice of chastity to divert you into something God has not asked of you, yet.
So, are you beginning to waver? Here's your deal:
You are free from sexually transmited diseases, free from the anger and humiliation of some sexual encounters, and free of thinking that you can "Sport Fcuk"...
But you are relegated to being called a prude fascist, that you have no comparisons, and an old maid and you find yourself totally alone.
I want you tell the guy you like this when he pressures you, "I am waiting for you to be multi-orgasmic so that all my chakras are enlightented and heightened"
Then you need to say to him, "Thru our minds, we can explore errogenous zones when I slip my f-i-n-g-e-r-s coursing over your heart. In this way, we build on our goal that surpasses ejaculation..."
And you haveta say that crap very sexy like...
Let us know what happens?
Whatever you decided, should you choose to have sex, have your man or men wear a condom(s). And if you don't want children, take birth control.
Your friendly neighborhood Public Health Announcement for the Year.
Kindly,
Dr. AKA_Monet
Chief of GC Hospital
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