Would you get seriously involved with a guy/girl if he/she......

[valkyrie]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

Honestly, I doubt I'll know it's bad unless it hurts like hell (after the 3rd or 4th time). That's one of the pluses of waiting...we could be having really lousy sex, but if I can't compare it with anything, how should I know?

I'm not trying to pick on you, but this is disturbing. You're saying that ignorance is a good thing in this situation? Is it a good thing in other situations?

Here's what I really think -- the attitude you have might be admirable in some circles (devout Christians) but you're selling yourself short. There's NO REASON to spend your life with some one-minute man who couldn't satisfy a woman to save his life. I'm not saying you should go out and hit it with the next dude on the street, but isn't it possible that the whole save-yourself-for-marriage thing was established a LONG ass time ago, when people got married at the age of 12, had 19 kids, and died before 40? Maybe it's time to re-evaluate.

[christiangirl]

I moved my answer to my own thread because I don't wanna take CG's thread from her....it's not supposed to be about me!!

[James]

I'm having a lot of trouble telling you two apart. . .

Originally Posted by christiangirl

I moved my answer to my own thread because I don't wanna take CG's thread from her....it's not supposed to be about me!!

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by James

I'm having a lot of trouble telling you two apart. . .

Many seem to be....I'm used to being the only CG around, so it's kind of weird. But I still don't get why people refer to us as "the two virgins" when she's already said she's not one .

[Dionysus]

cheerfulgreek is white.
christiangirl is black.



And, that's the only difference.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by Dionysus

cheerfulgreek is white.
christiangirl is black.



And, that's the only difference.

Not the only one! But good point, I hadn't thought about that.