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Originally Posted by James
Isn't a relationship without sexual contact called friendship?
I am being glib, but also serious.
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Let's say for example you were dating a young woman for about 3 1/2 years before you proposed to her. You mean to tell me the entire time you were just dating you'd just consider her your 'friend'? Even though you weren't having sex or were waiting to get married to have sex?
I'm lost...
Anyway, I was in this same situation not too long ago actually. I really liked this guy (or THOUGHT I did) and because I liked him and he was well aware of it, he thought that this was his open invitation to having sex with me. He felt as though,well, I like him, so I'll give him whatever he wants. Ummm-NOT! I don't think so. I'm a virgin, and plan on staying that way for a long time. If he didn't like it, that was just too damn bad and he can go back where he came from. Well, the next day after I denied him of ANY sexual activity, he started acting foolish. Didn't speak. Didn't call or anything. But you know what? That's fine. F*ck him is what I say.
Alot of women feel like in order to keep a so-called "man" that they have to give up the only precious thing they can't get back just so some
man can have another notch on his belt. If a man is not willing to get some self-control and WAIT, then you don't need him. I might have got off topic a little, but that's my two cents.
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