What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

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Keep in mind that we are a small group on our campus, and we are not an NPC org.
During interviews, one of the girls told us that she had gotten mad when her place of work had gone out of business and had stolen several hundreds of dollars worth of stuff from them. We of course did not give her a bid, and when she cried and asked us why, we told her, "Some of your answers to the interview questions raised concerns in the sisters. We often have events in our private homes, and the lack of respect you showed for your employer's possessions makes us reluctant to invite you into our homes."
That was an extreme case. Anyone else we didn't invite back, we told them, "I'm sorry, but we don't discuss membership selection."