What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

[PeppyGPhiB]

Ick. I'll ignore your spelling mistakes/word choices for now and address what i think is the real problem: this whole idea of publishing a booklet on "how to get in" and then rubbing it in girls' noses when they don't get a bid is tacky. I take it you're a local, because I can't imagine any NPC sorority would do something like this.

The last thing a woman wants to do when she finds out she didn't get a bid is read a list of reasons why, or accept any of the blame for not getting one, as if she's done something wrong not to gain the chapter's praise.

I suggest you drop the "how to join" tips (other than talking about recruitment in general terms) and the "If you didn't get a bid" section especially.