What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

Originally Posted by PM_Mama00

That's one thing I wish people on GC would understand. People from different kinds of campuses will give advice and suggestions and then be shocked about the way your Greek system is run. I wouldn't give advice to someone with a large Southern campus's system.

Okay, now this absolutely absurd. Show me where these large Southern campus ladies gets shocked at how her campus does rush? If anything, the ladies who posted here showed some concern at her rush booklet/insert because it could possibly be going against NPC policies.

The consensus I got from this thread was:

a) Have a Rho Chi comfort her -- it's their job.
b) Membership selection is private, period. End of story.

(Fine, we didn't know that she didn't know what a Rho Chi was, but now she knows and knowing is half the battle)

If anything, recruitment at MY school is probably more similar to her campus than yours... so please don't paint us all with the same brush. THANKS.