What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[macallan25]

Originally Posted by BlessedOne04

A tatoo is all of that huh. What if you daughter got one...is she all of those things. What about ink on your skin makes you any of the qualities that you mentioned?

Thats funny because what I thought a good family was are parents (single or married) who teach their children right and wrong. A good family lends support to each other and adds productive members to society. JMO

I never said that wasn't the mark of a good family....thanks. As long as my daughter lived in my house and was supported by me......she wouldn't have one....simple as that. When she moves out and is on her own.......then she can do whatever she feels is in her best interest......doesn't mean that me and her mother wouldn't despise the fact that she has one and tell her that we don't approve of her having it. However, I really don't see that happening if we teach her that getting a tatoo is not the least bit attractive or classy and is not something that a lady would do to her body.

[valkyrie]

LOL why is anybody getting defensive about the tattoo thing? Okay, so dude doesn't want to date a woman with a tattoo, because he thinks it makes her trashy and unladylike and whatever. Who the eff cares? I'm guessing that most women with tattoos wouldn't want to date him either, because they're probably not interested in such a conservative, uptight guy. So everybody wins, right?

Hell, I have tattoos and I don't give a rat's ass what some guy I'd never be interested in thinks of them/me/life/whatever. To each his own, and all that crap. Don't worry about someone else's red flags unless you want to date him, you know?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by valkyrie

LOL why is anybody getting defensive about the tattoo thing? Okay, so dude doesn't want to date a woman with a tattoo, because he thinks it makes her trashy and unladylike and whatever. Who the eff cares? I'm guessing that most women with tattoos wouldn't want to date him either, because they're probably not interested in such a conservative, uptight guy. So everybody wins, right?

Hell, I have tattoos and I don't give a rat's ass what some guy I'd never be interested in thinks of them/me/life/whatever. To each his own, and all that crap. Don't worry about someone else's red flags unless you want to date him, you know?

Exactly. I agree. I'm very conservative also and would only get serious with a conservative woman. Everyone on here has certain standards and certain people they would continue to spend time with.