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Originally Posted by Alumiyum
That doesn't make it right. No one said life is fair, but I do not believe in treating an entire group badly for the mistakes of one or two members. I would have had a problem with it as a new member were I in this girl's situation. On the other hand, I would have gotten a few girls who agreed with me and gone to an officer to talk about my concerns.
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I totally agree that it doesn't make it right, but that's how life is. Right now, I'm in medical school and when one student in our class screws up (not preparing for case studies, leaving the lab messy, etc.) our entire class pays for one person's mistake.
It isn't ideal nor is it "right" but it's how the "real world" is.
I do agree that musicmom's daughter has every reason to be irritated if she really is innocent. I am sure, however, she simply complained to her mom in passing and didn't expect her to actually attempt to DO anything about it.
After all, I have complained to my mother, just in conversation, about things both in my chapter and currently, in medical school. I would have been beyond mortified if my mother had decided to take those simple pieces of conversation and post them on a message board for all the world to see.
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