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Originally Posted by Splash
I meant daughter has no say about her mom paying, not whether she can find a way to finance herself. She can do whatever she wants to raise the money herself.
I'm surprised that you guys seem so offended by the asking to de-pledge other girls. Obviously she can't do that, so I don't see why anyone would be bothered by that. Besides, I think it's obvious that she's overall more concerned about her daughter's happiness rather than the other pledges. I think it's ridiculous if you think that daughter's happiness is not the root of all of this. Her daughter is her business.
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I think it's a matter of "my daughter shouldn't be punished for something that someone else did".
It happens all the time. In elementary school, someone throws a spitball, but the whole class gets in trouble. On sports teams, someone screws up a play, and the whole team has to do laps. In high school, three people steal a copy of the test and the entire class has to re-take it. You work in a restaurant where you pool tips (all tips are collected and divided), and one sucky worker who gets rotten tips ends up reducing each person's portion.
It happens everywhere. There's a reason and a purpose. Can you - Splash or OP - not see that?