He sounds like a real winner ZTAngel. The gambling issue would have been the dealbreaker for me. Why are you moving in with and marrying someone who has a gambling addiction? It's not like it changes once you're married. Then you end up having to be the "money police" and try to make sure he doesn't spend ALL of it. Then it gets more complicated once kids come into the picture...
It seems like some women will put up with anything just to get engaged/married and be able to say that they have someone.
It's sad because she probably feels as though she can't do better.
I predict that they'll be divorced within a few years and she'll probably come looking for you and all of her other friends.
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