Is sex really that big of a deal?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

Hehe, girl they don't understand. We can have friends with benefits, too...they've just forgotten how to get creative with it. But yes, there are more of us, we're just a rare commodity.

I've tried to meet guys at church, the only problem is that I go to a small church, we've tended to pass around guys since there aren't many options. Once I move, that'll open up some doors, but it's just so discouraging that a choice that I've made is limiting my life. I have no intention of changing it, but outside of an arranged marriage, I'm losing hope over here. I know that I have my whole life ahead of me and guys my age are generally half-baked anyway, but come on. I never really believed I'd marry a guy who waited too, but at this point, the only guys who honestly respected my decision have been WAY older than me and I wasn't comfortable being with them anyway...(what 27 year old wants to get with an 18 year old? Yeah, he didn't want anything except my company...of course he didn't....)

There is no such thing as "friends with benefits". Friends don't get passes like that. If anything, they are really player cards.

Here is the deal and this is from a Public Health and CDC Perspective.

You need to protect yourself with condom(s) and birth control if you are sleeping with a man for the first time even if it is your husband.

Or you had better have a sense of smell stronger than a female dog...

The fact is when the boys figure out you ain't gonna put out, they go to others to fulfull their sexual appetite.

Keeping your virginity intact is cool and all. But you also need to have a fine idea of what it looks like when a man sleeps around.

It use to hurt to see that happen, but now it can kill you...

This is not even close to a joke.

No since of imagining your first night when it could be your last...

And the same goes for women who sleep around without protection.

Also, for women we sacrifice our empowered spirit and potential (E.S.P.) when we permit the assault and vandalism of our vaginas.

There are reasons for me saying this.