Is sex really that big of a deal?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

AAAAAGGGGHHHHH!!!! I DON'T WANT TO BE THE 40-YEAR-OLD VIRGIN!!!!!

Lol, but I'm still waiting till I'm married. I just want to wait to have sex till I'm married...I don't want my waiting to have sex be the reason I have to wait forever to get married. If that makes sense.

So we know that loss of virginity in women is politically and a whole bunch of other things is different than loss of virginity in a man...

I am willing to bet that you will be married in your mid-20's because some guy will figure out that if he wants you, he has to marry you.

The sad part is that he marries you, and he is unwilling to "share" his enjoyment and experience with you just so he can taste your "wine"... And then he leaves you because you may not be into the "learning curve" and don't want to play "catch up". Or, the first time, your lucky, your are pregnant and don't feel like having sex during your pregnancy... Then what does he do?

I mean, I don't need to know this information, but those are the kinds of things you have to consider in relationships.

Generally, a man in his mid-30's+ is into starting a family these days... There's research on that aspect.