What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I thought you were pretty cool at 1st but to explode and call me a jackass because I have certain preferences is wrong, but you're entitled to your own opinion. You settled....o.k. that's what you did. Would I settle? No. Would I want someone to settle for me? No. Because I don't agree with you, I don't call you out of your name. Pretty intelligent AKA Monet. I still like you though .

Whoa!!!

ZTAngel, the moderator, has called folks out about personal attacks.

Hey, if you choose to believe I settled, whatever, you don't pay my mortgage... Personally, I said I settled down... Compared to my fun times I had before I met my husband, i.e. tours on the red carpet in Hollywood premiers, someday, all my partying had to stop... Either I be with a philadering playboy or a goof-ball nerd... I chose the nerd because he was a good man and would love me. Besides, I love him, too...

The point is, what are we suppose to accomplish in this life? And life is about choices. Red, white, yellow, pink, and green flags before you date don't mean chit if you don't ante up straight with yourself...

Took me a long time to realize that... Just wanted you to not waste your life away like I did mine...

And I am not doing it because I want to be cool . I do it because I actually do care, with compassion and faith, for people...