See that's the thing... Anything can be grounds for "dismissal"...
All those items he listed, with the exception of family, can be changed.
Homegirl with tattooes--laser surgery...
Fat girls: Exercise, nutrition and bariatric...
Hammertime in girl's hands and feet: manicures & pedicures every 2 weeks
Hair falling off in clumps: saved head style, wigs or weaves or if it's a sistah, au naturel...
Jheri Curled Hair: Braids that grown into locks... Takes 2-3 years... Can be nicely kept
Jacked up teeth: Visit to the dentist, get implants and brighteners
Bad skin: Visit to the dermatologist and plastic surgeon get work done
Overall malaise: Weight training exercise with core workout (i.e. yoga or pilates), visit to a motivational speaker or professional coach.
Odd and strange behavior unrelated to drug use: Visit to a psychological specialist and get therapy. Takes 2-3 years of stabilization with possiblility of medication...
Funky family: Prayer and honest discussion toward offending parts with professional mental healthcare provider present
Now basically, PB does not want to work with a woman thru her issues. He only wants to work on
HIS issues with her... He needs to be by himself for awhile rather than unloading his miseries onto other unsuspecting women...
I do like what Valkyrie said though... Be man enough to tell homegirl you're dating what you did not like about her. Of course you will be selfish little prick, but hey, you have your standards.
It's about lifting as you climb.
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