I dated a Delt in college who tried to tell me that when they (Delts) got married, they "got" to tell their wives their ritual. He acted shocked when I told him that Kappa Delta does not allow that. I didn't buy the bit about DTD advocating sharing ritual, but I did wonder if it would be a short hop to "Well, we're pretty serious now, what does XYZ on your crest mean?"
I'm not suggesting that the OP's boyfriend has ulterior motives, just sharing that I heard something weird like that when I was in college, too. I never heard it from anyone, else, though. In retrospect, I should have asked his brothers about it, to see what they would have said about it!
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