Received a blatant B-list invitation BY PHONE BY PROXY, what to do?

[Gusteau]

Regarding the tux, since I have no opinion on the rest, a dark suit with the right shirt (white) and tie (dark and silk) could work, though I'd admit to feeling nervous about being underdressed. And really, being underdressed reflects poorly on you rather than the couple, etc.

I hate, hate, HATE rental tuxes. They never fit right, and to be honest they kind of skeeve me. The next time I need a tux I'm going to order one from Indochino (Indochino.com). They make custom suits with your measurements for less than $400 dollars. I was nervous before I ordered, but Forbes gave them a positive review and they will pay for up to $75 for alterations at your local tailor. I was very impressed with both the fit and quality of my suit, and I didn't need to get any alterations. I will definitely order again.

[PM_Mama00]

Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB

I think it's odd your husband was invited to the Bachelor Party but not the wedding...initially. No one should be invited to the pre-wedding events without also being invited to the wedding.

I agree with this, which is why I actually believe that they're invite may have gotten lost.

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

Uh, that's the point. I'm sorry, I don't believe in B-list guests. Someone is either important to you, and you find a way to put them on your list, or they aren't. You don't get to have it both ways. This case is especially egregious because hubby was invited to the bachelor party.

If someone thinks about me enough to put me on a B list, I'd be happy. Now that many of my friends are getting married, and I was just a part of one of their weddings, I'm seeing exactly HOW expensive it is, and many of our friends (including myself) are getting left out. That's fine. Not everyone is money bags and sometimes there are so many more obligatory guests that there just isn't room. A, B, or C list, I'd still feel honored to have been thought of.