Ordering high end on the first date. Is it rude or is it just me?

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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06

But personally, on a date, I'd be perfectly happy just going out and eating a bunch of caramels

Love the Good Will Hunting reference. And I agree with it. Much of what we do while dating is arbitrary, we are just trying to get to know the person better and discern their character, so in fact it doesn't completely matter what we actually do.