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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
It's not a matter of "posting in a way I don't like". As someone in the psych field, she should realize that sometimes it takes a harsh call-out to wake up and take a look at what you are doing. I've gone this road on GC myself - being a total bitch (not just snarky) until someone called me out on it and made me take a look back at myself. Yeah, I hated that person for saying it (for awhile, I got over it...in fact I'm not even 100% sure who it was. I'm thinking kddani) - but I needed to hear it. I was taking personal issues out here and had a complete personality flip flop. Once I recognized it, I could make the decision to stop. Yes, I still get bitchy sometimes - but it's more of a mood thing and not a constant.
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That's your choice to make and how you responded to someone who called you out, but it appears she doesn't feel the same and no one can make someone admit to something they aren't ready to or that they don't believe is true. I have a background in psychology as well and that doesn't mean any of us are hyper aware of our own perception we're putting out for others and have control over everything at any time. As much as we'd like people to see the reality we see and how we think it would help them to be like us, it frankly isn't going to happen on our time line no matter how much we want it to.
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