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10-27-2010, 02:44 PM
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I feel that since she was there to cause trouble in the first place, she got exactly as she deserved.
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10-27-2010, 05:13 PM
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But what if you did it to protect someone? Like I said in my OP, apparently "security" thought she was trying to attack Paul.
I was watching CNN news earlier and apparently the guy had put meant to put his foot on her shoulder to restrain her but had brushed her head with his foot in the process. It wasn't a straight on full contact head stomp nor was it meant to be. How I love conflicting reports.
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There is a video though which addresses some of the 'conflicting reports'
I don't believe the people involved were 'security' and could still have been charged with assault and false imprisonment for the restraint or placing feet on shoulder. It's not fucking ok to lay hands, or feet, on someone and it's not ok to stomp them either.
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This reminds me of that girl in 2008 who said someone held her down and carved a B in her forehead.
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Except, you know, video.
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I feel that since she was there to cause trouble in the first place, she got exactly as she deserved.
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Fuck off.
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10-27-2010, 05:24 PM
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As a note, I'm a huge Rand Paul fan.
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Fuck off.
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Sometimes I feel that you have a permanent case of the Mondays.
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10-28-2010, 06:11 AM
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Sometimes I feel that you have a permanent case of the Mondays.
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She's playing Rebel Without A Cause, Rage Against The Machine, I'm Unique Because I'm a Non-Conformist. Pick one. She's still upset about he ex, and she's trying to act like she doesn't give a damn about anyone or anything. Look at the southern shoes thread... "I'm not following any social rules because social rules are stupid". Yes - I went there, because someone needed to call her on it.
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10-28-2010, 08:05 AM
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She's playing Rebel Without A Cause, Rage Against The Machine, I'm Unique Because I'm a Non-Conformist. Pick one. She's still upset about he ex, and she's trying to act like she doesn't give a damn about anyone or anything. Look at the southern shoes thread... "I'm not following any social rules because social rules are stupid". Yes - I went there, because someone needed to call her on it.
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That was way harsh, Jess.
Whatever it may be, if someone is posting in a way we don't care for and we know they have real issues in their life it is kind of different to call them out as opposed to someone who doesn't let on that there is something going on that isn't just sand in a vagina and a crappy personality. I've called people out who I think are ridiculous but not if I know there are real issues at play. I'm not saying we should be supportive and like everyone, but acknowledge there are some people going through rough times and if being on GC and not being pleasant gets them through another day and through their shit in one piece I can ignore it because at least they are making contact with the world somehow.
Not that I know enough about Drolefille's personal life and motivation to be for sure anything is really going on, but am applying this to other people who have been here and not always been in sync with us and it is obvious something larger is at play whether it is ever confirmed or not.
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10-28-2010, 08:43 AM
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She's playing Rebel Without A Cause, Rage Against The Machine, I'm Unique Because I'm a Non-Conformist. Pick one. She's still upset about he ex, and she's trying to act like she doesn't give a damn about anyone or anything. Look at the southern shoes thread... "I'm not following any social rules because social rules are stupid". Yes - I went there, because someone needed to call her on it.
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When you get anything about me right, feel free to try and call me on it again. Seriously, anything. Go ahead. I'll be right here.
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That was way harsh, Jess.
Whatever it may be, if someone is posting in a way we don't care for and we know they have real issues in their life it is kind of different to call them out as opposed to someone who doesn't let on that there is something going on that isn't just sand in a vagina and a crappy personality. I've called people out who I think are ridiculous but not if I know there are real issues at play. I'm not saying we should be supportive and like everyone, but acknowledge there are some people going through rough times and if being on GC and not being pleasant gets them through another day and through their shit in one piece I can ignore it because at least they are making contact with the world somehow.
Not that I know enough about Drolefille's personal life and motivation to be for sure anything is really going on, but am applying this to other people who have been here and not always been in sync with us and it is obvious something larger is at play whether it is ever confirmed or not.
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I'm just trying to figure out how being anti-assault is non-conformist these days.
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10-28-2010, 09:13 AM
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When you get anything about me right, feel free to try and call me on it again. Seriously, anything. Go ahead. I'll be right here.
I'm just trying to figure out how being anti-assault is non-conformist these days.
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No idea about the relationship here but this is not the first incident of private security/private individuals at rallies or other public events over stepping what they should be doing and making it physical. Even if people who are not fans of the candidate go looking for a fight or drama it doesn't make for good PR when people are physically assaulted and it is documented. Same thing happened in Alaska with a candidate and a news blogger at a public school and private security of the candidate. Last I read charges are not being filed but I don't think it helps any movement or candidate appear legitimate when their followers and supporters cross the line. Yes it is an individual making a choice to be physical with another, but if the candidate doesn't speak out against it that isn't a good sign to me. In this case Profitt (the guy who put his foot on her head because of a bad back) is no longer working on the campaign, which is probably a good move for the candidate.
I do find it somewhat savvy/a boon to those who have an agenda to discredit that a young smaller woman was the person who had hands laid on her, and it could have been very different if a man had been in the same situation. I'm not saying that it was planned for someone to be attacked but the way it is being spun is no surprise. Conway, the other candidate is now using this as a woman's issue and as much as I dislike women being seen as people who are delicate and need protection other people get on board with it and that's ridiculous to make it about gender and not about someone who is allegedly a perpetrator of assault.
This story made me  when he thinks he should get an apology from the woman he put his foot on. I am kind of confused but the whole situation is rife with crazy http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories...MPLATE=DEFAULT
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10-28-2010, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
That was way harsh, Jess.
Whatever it may be, if someone is posting in a way we don't care for and we know they have real issues in their life it is kind of different to call them out as opposed to someone who doesn't let on that there is something going on that isn't just sand in a vagina and a crappy personality. I've called people out who I think are ridiculous but not if I know there are real issues at play. I'm not saying we should be supportive and like everyone, but acknowledge there are some people going through rough times and if being on GC and not being pleasant gets them through another day and through their shit in one piece I can ignore it because at least they are making contact with the world somehow.
Not that I know enough about Drolefille's personal life and motivation to be for sure anything is really going on, but am applying this to other people who have been here and not always been in sync with us and it is obvious something larger is at play whether it is ever confirmed or not.
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It's not a matter of "posting in a way I don't like". As someone in the psych field, she should realize that sometimes it takes a harsh call-out to wake up and take a look at what you are doing. I've gone this road on GC myself - being a total bitch (not just snarky) until someone called me out on it and made me take a look back at myself. Yeah, I hated that person for saying it (for awhile, I got over it...in fact I'm not even 100% sure who it was. I'm thinking kddani) - but I needed to hear it. I was taking personal issues out here and had a complete personality flip flop. Once I recognized it, I could make the decision to stop. Yes, I still get bitchy sometimes - but it's more of a mood thing and not a constant.
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10-28-2010, 09:19 AM
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It's not a matter of "posting in a way I don't like". As someone in the psych field, she should realize that sometimes it takes a harsh call-out to wake up and take a look at what you are doing. I've gone this road on GC myself - being a total bitch (not just snarky) until someone called me out on it and made me take a look back at myself. Yeah, I hated that person for saying it (for awhile, I got over it...in fact I'm not even 100% sure who it was. I'm thinking kddani) - but I needed to hear it. I was taking personal issues out here and had a complete personality flip flop. Once I recognized it, I could make the decision to stop. Yes, I still get bitchy sometimes - but it's more of a mood thing and not a constant.
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That's your choice to make and how you responded to someone who called you out, but it appears she doesn't feel the same and no one can make someone admit to something they aren't ready to or that they don't believe is true. I have a background in psychology as well and that doesn't mean any of us are hyper aware of our own perception we're putting out for others and have control over everything at any time. As much as we'd like people to see the reality we see and how we think it would help them to be like us, it frankly isn't going to happen on our time line no matter how much we want it to.
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