Sorority pledge misbehavior

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First, to the OP, this truly is something your daughter needs to handle since there really isn't anything you as her mother can do about it. I would suggest that she and her group of friends request a meeting with the president or standards officer and take it from there

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I am sure, however, she simply complained to her mom in passing and didn't expect her to actually attempt to DO anything about it.

I think OP is just asking us about the situation. She didn't say she was making calls or demanding bids be revoked. Her daughter probably called upset and over-dramatized the situation. Now mom is asking, "is this typical? are there repercussions? etc"

Also, by my calendar, it is just about time for new members to leave the honeymoon period (if they pledged before school started). School is getting tougher, no one is kissing the pledges' rears telling them how great they are 24/7. For parents, this is the time that many have to become a cheerleader for their freshman. Sounds like this is what is happening with OP's daughter.

I don't think the OP went overboard - she is just venting after listening to daughter.