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Originally Posted by RedRoseM.D.
I'll start with ree-xi:
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I linked to this thread and was about to log off until I noticed how you and Barbie's rush skewered this girl re: her situation. Even if she is not telling the 'whole story' about her situation, Barbie's Rush, your responses were vapid at best but mostly cruel. It's a shame that that grown women would make such comments to a collegiate.
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I merely called out Barbie's rush for her cruel comments and now ree-xi.
Telling me to butt out is pretty consistent with the rest of your comments, Barbie's rush. This is an open forum and I hate to see people talking down to collegiate members or pnm's.
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I just re-read my posts to the OP. I didn't skewer the OP, nor was I cruel. I never talked down to her. I'd ask you for evidence but of course, there is none.
I actually have a big heart and am very sensitive. However, I
am direct and ask questions. People mistake directness as rude, and get defensive when questions are asked.
I ask direct questions so as to remove the emotional element from the situation and get to the business of the matter so that I can:
A. offer a perspective that the person may not see, or
B. offer suggestions as to how to resolve the situation (whether that be seeking help elsewhere, or moving on).
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