How to make it work?

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by lechat

Thanks for the reply. I'm really going to try.

It's just so hard because I really felt like I fit in at the other house. I'm going to seek a lot of the girls out that I met there as friends anyway because we really did hit it off.

I just feel like it's a lot of money to not REALLY be happy, so I'm trying very hard to stay positive and optimistic. I still feel a bit let down though. I just don't want to go into the next phase of membership sad about it all.

Seriously, figure out what you DO like about your new sorority and your sisters. Instead of focusing what "isn't", focus on what you have. They were your second choice, so there is stuff you must have liked. What are those things? Who are the girls you clicked with? There are probably plenty of girls who would love to be where you are.

You need to stop sulking and move on. THIS group wanted you most. Be a big girl, open your eyes and mind to what's in front of you. How "bad" is the situation that you can't find anything/enough to be happy about?