How to make it work?

[Benzgirl]

Based on your prior posts, you are a junior, and since you accepted your bid, won't have a chance to pledge again until your senior year. Chances are slim to none that you will get a bid when a senior. AOPi Angel is right...time to move on.

My advice is to step it up and be an adult. In life, we don't often work with people we like but need to make it work. Connect with your pledge sisters. I'm sure you will find something in common with someone. Remember, being in a sorority is not about 2-4 years. It's a lifetime commitment.

[lechat]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

Based on your prior posts, you are a junior, and since you accepted your bid, won't have a chance to pledge again until your senior year. Chances are slim to none that you will get a bid when a senior. AOPi Angel is right...time to move on.

My advice is to step it up and be an adult. In life, we don't often work with people we like but need to make it work. Connect with your pledge sisters. I'm sure you will find something in common with someone. Remember, being in a sorority is not about 2-4 years. It's a lifetime commitment.

I never even considered not accepting the bid? Or dropping out? I trusted the fact that those girls chose me - I was just having trouble adjusting.

I felt uncomfortable at first and I wasn't sure how it would work out. It IS a lot of money to pay if you're not happy - but I certainly wasn't considering dropping out. And not because I'm a junior and wouldn't get a bid...

but because these ladies put time and effort into getting to know me and choosing me for their chapter. That's worth something to me. I didn't approach joining lightly.

[Jobellesis]

You didn't appear bratty to me. I think I know what you felt. I probably had the same feelings. I'm glad you've settled in. Congratulations and enjoy being part of a great sisterhood.