If you go into it thinking about how much you wanted your first choice, you won't even be able to give your second choice a chance. And I know being a new member is expensive, but since you're stuck for a year, you should stick with it for now. It's great that you still plan to make friends with the women you met from the other sorority, but give that a little time. They're busy with their new members and you need to get busy with your new pledge class. Forget about the other organization for right now and focus on this one. If for some reason you just can't stand it before initiation, you can drop, but focus on making it work.
And I loved my years as a collegian, but think of these 4 years as 4 years out of 70+ you have left. Because once you're initiated you have a lifetime to be a member.
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