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Originally Posted by Happy Mom
We were told in the 70's (by National) that unless a legacy had something horribly wrong with them, we had to take them. Until last year, none of My Sisters (who have been meeting for reunions for years) had any idea that the policy had changed. 20 to 30 recommendations were sent from all My Sisters who had watched my daughter grow up, I drove across Country to be there when my daughter got her bid and she was released by receiving a voicemail that morning. I don't think I have ever been so shocked or devastated in my life. If I had received any warning at all, I could have prepared both of us. I never even received a call from the Chapter to tell me she was being released. The pain and hurt I felt is indescribable. I have three sons and she was my only daughter. There were only 8 Legacies going through RUSH and only one other direct Chapter legacy. She is a very resilient young lady and bounced back by getting involved and running for office at the University. She harbors no ill will toward the girls in the Chapter and has become friends with many. I would have loved for her to pledge any of the Sororities. I just wish I had been on this Website and read these forums before she went through Recruitment. My fault that I was blindsided. I am volunteering to help with RUSH this year at the Chapter and love all the girls so everything is fine now but even now, I still get physically sick when I think of the disappointment.
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Wow, 20 to 30 letters of rec. Is that considered a lot? (my chapter doesn't get recs)
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