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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
Sounds like you've done your own soul-searching and I applaud your efforts of reaching a resolution to your situation.
I caution you to also know that in serious relationships, those issues that only scratch will gnaw over time. While you could trust him implicitly, can you trust him around other "highly attractive" women? Do you know if he can "only have eyes for you"? The question for you is about YOUR TRUST! Not his, because he is confident when trusting you...
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See! There you go again! lol
Yes, you bring up very valid and real points. Only time will tell. It has only been 8 months. So far, he has not shown me any reason to distrust him in any way whatsoever, even around other "highly attractive" women. He "only has eyes for me" which is something I really like about him. One of the reasons I was so surprised by the story he shared with me is b/c he is not a person I would think would ever do what he did 15 years ago. But I realize that's me knowing him today, not me knowing him 15 years ago. Today, he is a very grounded, responsible person who has his priorities in order. It has only been 8 months and only time will tell if the person he is today is really who he is or if that person from 15 years ago still comes out from time to time.
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