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Originally Posted by USFrush09
I hate to not finish my recruitment story, but I actually took my first post down. I kind of need some immediate advice from my GCers.
I got a bid yesterday and I spent some time getting to know my sisters. I feel as if something is missing deep down inside. I had a stronger connection in other houses and I feel as if this house is not the right fit for me. I'm a junior so that might of played a role as why it was so harsh on me. All of the girls in my sorority are nice -- of course, but my recruitment week has been stressful and overwhelming. During my recruitment week I saw myself in three other houses, this one really wasn't one of them.
I have decided to try it out for a couple of weeks (before initiation) and see how I will feel. I just feel guilty that I might of taken away a bid from someone else that might of really loved my sorority. I really don't even know if greek life is for me. Another factor is that right before recruitment started I had serious family issues. I am just confused right now and don't know where to turn.
Any advice is appreciated.
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Honestly, I don't understand how anyone can hang out for so long on Greekchat prior to recruitment, read the threads, share their tales of excitement and being "open minded" then come back here with something like this after bid day. I know I am being harsh, but seriously, these things are covered ad nauseum here on a daily basis.
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