Part of the reason that I did not suggest getting the school involved is because she said from the start that they go to different high schools. That may make the school assistance more difficult. I would try to talk to the parents first, in the manner I suggested earlier. IF I got a poor response, then I would definitely go to the authorities.
This incident doesn't mean this girl is completed whacked for life. I remember having some pretty extreme reactions to being rejected by early boyfriends. Teens are learning how to negotiate this stuff and need guidance through it. I remember being completely devastated and when I look back at the young men who put me through that, I think "I liked them.. why???" Teens are dramatic, emotional, etc. I would hate to get police involved if it can be resolved without it.
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