Definitely talk to the parents, because a lot of kids (and people) are excellent at hiding behavior. If that doesn't work, does your son's school have a police officer assigned to it (assuming it is public) you could use as a resource? That officer may have some tips or resources at the girl's school.
Also, my phone has a block feature, you should investigate that as an option, and also document everything. Even if she isn't anorexic, she needs to get help/learn that this is not socially acceptable behavior. Perhaps you and other family members should always be with your son until this blows over. When I had a situation with my former future ex-husband, having someone around was a great relief, even though nothing ever happened again.
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