OK I haven't read any of this thread (which, upon preview, appears to be kind of a good thing) - but it's pretty simple:
If you think they're "the one" and they don't agree, you move on until the next time you become over-infatuated with someone, because you're fucked. Eventually, you'll learn, or find someone on your level, or mature, or improve, or you'll get 30 cats. It's all good.
Besides this, the concept of "the one" is so inanely "girly" I can't deal with it - it's a garbage label that only matters post-hoc, and in most cases is only applied to people who no longer want to have sex with you (and therefore can't possibly fit the term).
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