When "the one" doesn't think YOU are "the one"

[Bluetiful]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Maybe this thread didn't go where the OP hoped it would.

That's ok DSTChaos. It is GC after all. I'm still interested in what everyone has to say, even if it may not adress my original post. In a way, it's all related. For example, I liked reading AKA_Monet's posts/views on marriage and SoCalGirl's opinion about gender communication etc. etc.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Bluetiful

That's ok DSTChaos. It is GC after all. I'm still interested in what everyone has to say, even if it may not adress my original post. In a way, it's all related. For example, I liked reading AKA_Monet's posts/views on marriage and SoCalGirl's opinion about gender communication etc. etc.

I knew there was a reason that this thread reminded me of Pink's breakup with her hubby. Your op used her description of the break up almost word for word. Yeah I think your post was actually addressed along with related topics like the importance of marriage and communication problems.

When I read the Pink article, I thought "what's the point of giving up so easily?" But that's what works for them for right now. It seems that they both agreed that now isn't a good time for them to be together--maybe later. That may be slightly less hurtful than someone who you think is THE ONE coming to you and saying you're not his THE ONE.