40 y.o. track coach marries his student :(

[fantASTic]

Originally Posted by DSTRen13

I can only speak for myself on this, but yes, I did talk on the phone to an older male friend late at night. I believe at the time I was 15 and he was 38 or something? Not really sure. I have no idea the exact time of night. Mostly, we discussed philosophy, Jesus, and different ideas about Christianity. It wasn't a sexual thing. He isn't a freak and I'm not a freak, and it really isn't a big deal

Yes..but the thing is, you don't really know what HE thought. Maybe he was sexually attracted to you. If he didn't tell you, you may not have ever known. It's not so improbable.

[DSTRen13]

Originally Posted by fantASTic

Yes..but the thing is, you don't really know what HE thought. Maybe he was sexually attracted to you. If he didn't tell you, you may not have ever known. It's not so improbable.

I suppose not. He's married now, to a woman his own age. If there was any sort of sexual thing that I never noticed, then I have to say no harm, no foul. He certainly never expressed anything of that nature in any way. I just don't think that as a rule such a friendship has to have sexual overtones. But I guess it just depends on the people involved.