What to tell a girl who didn't get a bid

[Symbal]

I highly agree with the opinion that the Office on Greek Life should have some sort of support for girls who didn't get a bid, as a bidless woman myself.

It shatters you, and when I was dropped the night before pref, I was called twice by my rho chi so I "understood" that I was not invited back. (It stung and I was highly upset that she called two times to make sure I 'understood' that I didn't get any invites, and I felt it was highly innapropriate. She offered no other comfort than that. Turns out she had done more wrong to me than that, but I digress.) After that, heartbroken, the Greek System abandoned me. You truly feel that you've been put through the system, giving it your all, and it spit you out. Perhaps have a couple rho chis who could offer a shoulder for a few days after. It may be a bit much to ask, but being completely abandoned by a system you wanted to be apart of hurts very much.