What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[sdsuchelle]

I agree with almost everything Scandia said.. except the smoking part. I can deal with an ocassional smoker.

Not liking animals, especially MY dogs, is grounds for disqualification.

[mulattogyrl]

red/yellow flags:

- those that talk too much about their ex
- arrogant attitude/chip on shoulder - BIG turn off
- too nice too soon; telling me what he 'thinks' I want to hear

[WVU alpha phi]

Red flags
-bad grammar (I can't stand it, and it's even worse when the person IS educated and talks like this anyway)
-talking about ex girlfriends. not on the first date.
-disrespectful to the waitress, movie ticket person, etc.
-ANYONE WHO TALKS NEGATIVELY ABOUT THEIR MOM. im a firm believer that a guy treats his mom/sisters the way he treats you.
-smoking. social smoking (like at a bar when you're drunk) doesn't bother me too much, but i could never date a "smoker"

Yellow flags
-someone who name drops.
-someone who hints they have money. it's SO annoying.
-someone who doesn't like animals, especially dogs.
-tennis shoes.. not on a first date, no way.
-making a comment about the price of dinner/movies, etc.
-lack of opening doors. i dont really notice if they open a car door, but a door to a building should definitely be held open.
-a democrat (if they have strong political views). i love george bush.
-acting way too interested way too early.